Doug Hinderer visits with Jim and Maureen Otremba, who have been married for 27 years. They explore how the Eucharist can transform your marriage. They introduce the concept of eight types of intimacy, and how each one is key to a thriving marriage.

(You can hear about all 8 of them in the whole hour!)

Spiritual intimacy takes center stage, as they share that every Eucharist reminds us that we are adopted sons and daughters of God. Next time you make the sign of the cross, they suggest really soaking in that truth: you’re a child of God, and Christ died for you. 🩸✝️ Powerful, right?

One standout tip? Pray together! If spontaneous prayers feel awkward (we get it!), start with the basics like the Our Father or Hail Mary. Or grab the Relevant Radio app to guide you. The important thing is removing roadblocks that keep you from connecting spiritually. You need to see Christ in your spouse.  How does that change your love?

Jim and Maureen also stress the power of words: verbal intimacy. You can either build up or tear down your spouse with the things you say. Sarcasm? Not great. It literally means “tearing the flesh” (yikes!). They suggest focusing on affirmation and genuine conversation, reminding us that, yep, our words are flesh too, just like the Word became flesh in Jesus.

The couple also touches on emotional intimacy: a major one, especially for those of us who might not be naturally “touchy-feely.” If you think you can’t express emotions, remember that you’ve been able to do that since birth through crying! It’s all about nurturing that ability to connect emotionally. Share your feelings, get vulnerable, and watch how it strengthens your bond.

Finally, they talk about intellectual intimacy: discussing ideas, even when you don’t agree. In today’s polarized world, learning to discuss differences lovingly can be revolutionary. Ask your spouse, “Tell me more about that!” Be curious, open, and always affirm their perspective.

The bottom line? The Eucharist doesn’t just feed your soul; it feeds your marriage. Through spiritual, verbal, emotional, and intellectual intimacies, you can make your marriage a true reflection of Christ’s love for the Church. 🙌

Takeaways:

Next Mass: Make the sign of the cross with intentionality: remember who you are!

Prayer challenge: Start praying together, even if it’s small.

Speak life: Your words are powerful: use them to build up your spouse.

Emotional check: Be vulnerable; it’s worth the risk.

Remember that the Eucharist is the solution to a stronger marriage! 💒

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