This episode of The Drew Mariani Show was a rollercoaster of heartbreak, hope, and hard truths about marriage, infidelity, and the spiritual battle behind it all. Drew sat down with marriage therapist Doug Hinderer to unpack why infidelity is rampant today and whether marriages can heal after betrayal. Don’t forget to listen to Doug’s show called Marriage Unhindered right here on Relevant Radio!
You can catch the whole hour of conversation about divorce and infidelity here.
Some of the content may not be suitable for sensitive ears.
Why Is Marriage Under Attack?
Drew kicked things off by calling out the real enemy: Satan. He reminded us that marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God to reflect His love. The devil hates it. That’s why we see so many attacks on marriage, from infidelity to divorce to the total redefinition of family.
Sister Lucia of Fatima even warned that “the final battle between God and Satan would be over marriage and family”; well… look around. 
Can A Marriage Survive Infidelity?
Doug Hinderer, therapist and author, weighed in on the hard but hopeful truth:
Yes, marriages can heal after infidelity.
BUT the unfaithful spouse has to truly repent and change.
Sacraments are key: confession, prayer, the Eucharist. 
Forgiveness is a must: not just for the cheater’s soul, but for the betrayed spouse’s healing.
Doug’s big message is that some couples come out of this stronger than ever… but only when they lean on God.
Heartbreaking Caller Stories
Joe from Florida: Divorced just a month ago, still wondering if his wife left for another man. Drew and Doug encouraged him not to torment himself with “what-ifs” but to keep praying and trusting God with the unknown.
Sharon from Arizona: Married 33 years, thought everything was fine, but her husband blindsided her with a divorce, drained their finances, and moved in with a younger woman. 
She’s devastated but choosing forgiveness and praying for his conversion. Drew and Doug urged her to fight for her legal rights while also leaving space for God to work.
Why Forgiveness Matters (Even When It Feels Impossible)
Doug reminded us of one of the scariest Bible passages:
“If you forgive others, your heavenly Father will forgive you. If you do not forgive others, your Father will not forgive you.” (Matt. 6:14-15)
YIKES. 
That means forgiveness isn’t optional… it’s a spiritual necessity. Not easy, but necessary.
Takeaways:
Marriage is sacred, and Satan hates it… so expect attacks.
Healing is possible after betrayal, but it requires serious repentance and grace.
Forgiveness isn’t about excusing sin; it’s about freeing yourself.
Prayer is powerful: never stop praying for your spouse, even if they’ve hurt you.
Final thought from Drew: “Let’s pray for these marriages. And for one another.” 
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