Doug Hinderer lays out 15 traits every wife longs to see in her husband – and how men can grow into them. From emotional support and respect, to humor, patience, and responsibility, Doug unpacks the qualities that strengthen love and build lasting trust in marriage. If you want to hear what traits men are looking for, you can listen to Hour 1 and Hour 2 here!
Here are the 15 traits women want most in their husbands:
-Emotional support – listening, paying attention, and being present
-Respect – gratitude, kind speech, and affirming her dignity
-Humor – keeping joy alive and building connection through laughter
-Honesty – admitting mistakes and being trustworthy
-Dependability – following through on promises and vows
-Affection – small gestures of love, from holding hands to saying “I love you”
-Patience – staying calm and understanding, even when it’s difficult
-Ambition – working hard for the family and for personal growth
-Kindness – putting down the screens and showing thoughtfulness
-Shared values – alignment on faith, family, and what truly matters
-Good communication – talking without blame and using healthy dialogue
-Loyalty – protecting and defending her, even when others criticize
-Flexibility – adapting to life’s changes and striving to grow as a man
-Support for her independence – cheering her on in her dreams and successes
-Responsibility – sharing the load, keeping promises, and living a life of service
Doug reminds men that their vocation is to serve their wives and families with consistency and joy. He makes it clear that responsibility, loyalty, and flexibility are daily habits that make marriage stronger and holier.
If you’ve ever wondered, what does my wife really need from me? – this podcast episode gives you a clear, faith-based roadmap for becoming the husband God calls you to be.
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