Timmere and Catholic parenting coach Catherine Johnson just hit it out of the park with this episode of Trending. If you’re a Catholic mom (or know one!) feeling like you’re barely holding it together, this convo will feel like a giant, grace-filled exhale 😮💨.
You can listen to the entire episode here!
😅 What Even Is Catholic Mom Guilt?
It’s that feeling of never doing enough. But here’s the thing: a lot of us don’t even realize we’re carrying this guilt until it’s quietly wrecking our peace. It’s subtle. Like spiritual glitter.
🔍 Compare & Despair: The Catholic Edition
Ever see another mom totally crushing it and then suddenly find yourself spiraling into thoughts like:
“I don’t pray enough.”
“My kids don’t know the St. Michael Prayer by heart!”
“I forgot to make Zeppole for St. Joseph’s Day… again.”
You’re probably not called to 6am Angelus with toddlers if you’re 39 weeks pregnant and haven’t slept. And that’s okay.
🧭 Guilt vs. Conviction: How to Tell the Difference
Timmere and Catherine get into a super helpful distinction:
Healthy guilt = the Holy Spirit nudging you toward holiness, like “you snapped at your kids, go apologize and confess.”
Toxic guilt = inner condemnation, “You’re the worst Catholic mom ever, how dare you skip that novena?”
If your inner voice sounds more like a bully than Jesus, it’s not from God.
😤 When Mom Guilt Turns into Mom Condemnation
Another nugget: If you catch yourself being a little judgy toward the moms who are “doing all the things” … that might actually be your own mom guilt, just wearing a mask.
Time to flip the script and get curious:
🤔 What is it about that other mom’s life that’s triggering something in me?
💡 Is it something I admire but am not ready for? Or something that’s just… not my calling?
💜 Authenticity Over Perfection
Timmere reminds us: your domestic church doesn’t need to look like everyone else’s.
Take the things that inspire you and make them your own.
👉 Some moms wake up their kids with a bell and pray the Angelus. That’s beautiful.
👉 Others pray a morning Hail Mary while surviving the cereal chaos. Also, beautiful.
And that “perfect mom” you see on social media? She’s struggling too. Promise.
Timmere admitted to losing her patience recently; she apologized to her kids, and later her 4-year-old apologized back.
🙌 Modeling mercy is one of the most powerful ways we can teach the faith.
Let them see you mess up. Let them see you get back up.
Practical Takeaways for Catholic Moms
Catherine shares two golden nuggets:
Learn how the Lord speaks to you: When you can tell His voice from the world’s noise, parenting becomes way more peaceful.
Learn to receive mercy: God is gentler with you than you are. Let that sink in.
And finally: instead of chasing someone else’s Catholic parenting blueprint, ask:
“Lord, how do YOU want me to raise these little saints?”
You’re Not Called to Be Her. You’re Called to Be YOU.
This episode was a giant permission slip to drop the guilt, laugh a little, and lean into the grace.
You’re doing better than you think. ❤️👑
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