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Catching a Good Catholic Spouse

Thomas Engesserby Thomas Engesser

Fr. Rob Ryan and Fr. John LoCoco join Doug to discuss an upcoming singles night at St. Benedict Catholic Church in Chicago. Doug also talks about the challenges of dating and what to look for in a future spouse.

Listener questions and comments:

  • Lisa – If you are a female, go to where the men are: the lakes, the beach and hiking. (21:12)
  • Bobby – It’s hard to tell a spouse you don’t like who they hang around with because you might be suggesting they are similar to that group. They might say ‘you don’t trust me?’ (39:20)
  • Elma – Is it ok to date a widower of only one month? (42:30)
  • Maureen – I used to be a professional matchmake. For Catholics: what a great time to check out the singles at confession. (46:45)

Resources:

Catholic Catch Singles Trivia Pre-Registration

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20 best ways to find a date in real life

  1. Sign Up for a Fitness Class / dance lessons
  2. Attend Community Events
  3. Take a Class That Interests You
  4. Say Yes to Social Invitations
  5. Become a Regular Somewhere such as a coffee shop
  6. Volunteer for a Cause
  7. Join a Sports League
  8. Attend Networking Events
  9. Explore Bookstores and Libraries
  10. Take Part in Group Travel or Tours
  11. Attend Live Music Events
  12. Join a Hobby Group
  13. Take Dance Lessons
  14. Attend Faith-Based or Spiritual Events
  15. Sign Up for a Public Speaking or Improv Class
  16. Explore Outdoor Activities
  17. Register for Workshops or Seminars
  18. Become an Active Member of Your Neighborhood
  19. Attend Friend-of-a-Friend Gatherings
  20. Focus on Living a Full Life

4 Things to look for when you are dating

  1. Does the person ask questions about you and listen for the answers?
  2. Do they treat people of lesser status well?
  3. Are they reliable?
  4. Are they a person of virtue and trying be a better person?

Ask the right questions

  1. What brought you here?
  2. Wat sparks your curiosity?
  3. Who are the people you like to hang out with?
  4. What are your hobbies?
  5. What do you spend most of your time thinking about?
  6. What is something you believe that most people will disagree with?
  7. What does a life well-lived look like to you?

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