Monica Joins Doug to discuss how to deal with pesky teens. It’s a tough time for the teen and the parent so meet them where they are and remember to take a deep breath or two.
Listener questions and comments:
- Lynda – When I was raising children, I started having a family meeting and gave the children a chance to speak. It helped build trust. (20:47)
- Nick – There was a Catholic psychiatrist Conrad Baars who spoke of affirmation. I am a big fan because when I was a child I had issues with overly critical parents. (36:02)
- Paul – I learned how to teach patience to my children from watching the movie Aladdin. Jaffar’s bird was always squawking, and I reiterate the line ‘patience’. (39:00)
Resources:
Marriage Unhindered
https://www.marriageunhindered.com/
Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle
https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle
Happy Marriage for Life
https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/
Boundaries with Kids: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children – Henry Cloud
https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Kids-Children-Control-Their/dp/0310243157
Parenting with Love & Logic: Teaching Children Responsibility – Jim Fay
https://www.amazon.com/Parenting-Love-Logic-Teaching-Responsibility/dp/B0D3MCHBPK
Rules to deal with pesky teens
- Breath
- Don’t rise to the bait
- Don’t draw on your own teen years
- Have realistic expectations
- Keep them safe in a digital world
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