Author: Thomas Engesser

Marriage Lessons from Gethsemane

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Doug shares marriage lessons we can learn from Jesus’ suffering in Gethsemane. He unpacks martyrdom in marriage, white martyrdom and how God uses our sufferings to redeem souls. Listener questions and comments: Katherine – My Husband will say sometimes ‘I just wish I was dead’ and I don’t know how to respond. (20:05) Podcast: Play […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Beautifully Imperfect & Deeply Committed

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Dr. Ed Sri and his wife Beth join Doug to discuss their book – The Good, the Messy, and the Beautiful: The Joys and Struggles of Real Married Life. Listener questions and comments: John – I have a porn addiction that my wife found out about, and it led her to discover inappropriate messages and […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Fixing What Isn’t Working

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What should you do when “The Formula” doesn’t work? What should you do when your wife doesn’t do what you ask? Doug goes to the mailbag answering these questions and more. Listener questions and comments: Mike – What do you think about common law marriage? (16:11) Addison – I am struggling because my husband is […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Avoid the Trap of Discouragement (Part 2)

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Do the problems in your marriage seem insurmountable? Today, Doug continues his discussion on discouragement and despair in marriage. Listener questions and comments: Alexander – How do I convince my wife to become Catholic? (3:05) Colby – I want to recommend that Alexander looks into the Byzantine rite of the Catholic Church. (16:47) David – […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Avoid the Trap of Discouragement

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Doug takes calls from listeners struggling with discouragement, resentment, and distance in long-term marriages. He offers guidance on staying faithful to your vows and finding hope when relationships feel strained. Plus, the Friday rant! Listener questions and comments: Jennifer – My marriage is in despair after 31 years, and my husband is distant and sleeping […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Managing Family Finances Together

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Is money causing stress in your marriage? Today, Doug is joined by Preston Allex to talk through practical ways to manage family finances. They cover why creating a family budget matters and how to support college-aged kids as they transition into independence. They also share the value of Catholic Legacy: Faithful planning for a peaceful […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Virtue and Conquering the Four Horsemen

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Doug examines the 4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse and the damage they do to a marriage: criticism, contempt stonewalling and defensiveness. Listener questions and comments: Ray – Can you give the steps of what to do once you meet a girl? (16:37) Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: RSSPodcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Faith in a Divided Home

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What should you do when your spouse won’t quit drinking? How do you pass on the faith to your children when your spouse is resistant? Listener questions and comments: Stephanie – My husband wants to stop drinking and my son doesn’t believe that he will. I’ve seen my son cry about this. My son has […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Growing Together in Marital love

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Nathan Bartel, founder of Cana Feast joins Doug to discuss things men need to know about their wives and the marital embrace. Listener questions and comments: Mary – What should a wife do if the wife is not wanting or willing to have sex so she is in the other bed room for days and […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Healing the Wound of Abortion

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Kathy Burkes and Fr. John McNamara join Doug to discuss Project Rachel and post abortion healing. Julia – So many people pushed me to get an abortion when I was 22 and I didn’t go through with it. I’m so glad I didn’t. (18:12) Walt – When we separate the word ‘mother’ from the term […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more