Doug shares phrases you can say to your spouse that will breathe new life into your marriage. Listener questions and comments: Dan – There is a tiny fraction of a second to make a decision, and say ‘I feel this’ and ‘I feel that’, and step back and evaluate before screwing up. (19:35) Dave – […]Read more

Can you have too much laughter in marriage? Doug unpacks a letter by Alice Von Hildebrand from her book By Love Refined, sharing that while laughter is important, it can be superficial and a relationship should not be solely based on it. Love and service are the true hallmark of a real marriage. PLUS: The […]Read more

Doug shares why you should have children before you are ready, how to raise emotionally intelligent children, and how to help your sons overcome laziness. Listener questions and comments: Sharla – I’m and nurse and I see younger families come in and they roll with things and are more relaxed as the years go by […]Read more

Are these the tough years? What happens when married life becomes boring? What happens when a husband doesn’t provide enough financial support for his wife? You be the therapist! Callers weigh in and Doug shares his advice on what to do in these situations. Listener questions and comments: Sue – The couple in the first […]Read more

Doug shares highlights from Pope Leo’s homily from the Mass for the Jubilee of Families, Children, Grandparents and the elderly stressing the importance of maintaining unity within marriage. Doug encourages listeners to let their marriage be an example to the world as a representation of God’s love for all mankind. Doug also unpacks a chapter […]Read more

Do you or your child struggle with anxiety or scrupulosity? Is it having a negative effect on you or your marriage? Dr. Johann D’Souza joins Doug to discuss what scrupulosity is, is not and how to treat it. Listener questions and comments: Barbara – I have had OCD all of my life. What helps me […]Read more

Are you in a relationship and wondering if you are compatible? Doug discusses what couples should know before they tie the knot. He identifies red flags couples ignore that could lead to a difficult marriage or even divorce. PLUS: The Friday Rant! Listener questions and comments: Mark – If you’re going to marry someone and […]Read more

Monica Hinderer joins Doug to continue their discussion on how to teach children the virtue of resilience. They address the idea of the “perfect parent” sharing the impact of acknowledging our imperfections as parents, learning from mistakes, and modeling resilience and accountability for our children. Listener questions and comments: Maria – I’m a mother of […]Read more

Doug discusses how to be a good and virtuous man. He unpacks 6 qualities of a good man sharing the importance of man’s role to protect their wives physically, emotionally and spiritually. Listener questions and comments: Lydia – We lead marriage enrichment retreats and share the importance of patience, kindness, and gentleness. They are marriage […]Read more

Doug shares how to recover and heal from a fight. He unpacks the 5 step process for healing which includes sharing how you felt during the fight, describing your perception of what happened during the fight, sharing what escalated the interaction for you, taking responsibility, and coming up with constructive plans. Mary & Joe – […]Read more

What does it take to have a happy marriage? What can take away from a happy marriage? Today, Doug discusses the virtues that make for a happy marriage. He also shares three tips for a successful marriage. PLUS: The Friday Rant! Listener questions and comments: Tessa – My husband and I started dating in high […]Read more

Monica Hinderer joins Doug discussing how to teach your children the virtue of resilience. They stress the importance of having consistent loving caregivers and responsive attention at an early age. Listener questions and comments: David – How do I help my daughter forgive and move on? (8:02) Kathleen – I have a 22-year-old who’s constantly […]Read more