How to Cultivate a Spirit of Generosity

Everyone wants to be considered generous. Generous with your time, generous with your resources, generous with your love and attention. But there are so many things that can hold us back from cultivating that spirit of generosity. Lack of trust, fear, a feeling of scarcity. Sometimes we need to just understand what is holding us back so that we can live with a spirit of abundance and generosity.

Fr. Joe D’Amico, a regular Relevant Radio® contributor, stopped by Morning Air®  to discuss how we can understand the nature of generosity and have the courage to be more generous in our daily lives.

Fr. D’Amico and host John Harper discussed how trust is a key component in cultivating the gift of generosity, and that we must all examine our lives and our priorities. Asking ourselves some key questions can show us how willing we are to trust and how we are using the gifts God has given us.

“How do we trust? And what’s the first step?” Fr. D’Amico asked. “Whether we’re making a donation or even beyond that. … What do we reserve for charity? What do we reserve for the works of the Lord? Beyond the finances, beyond the dollars and cents, beyond the material – am I a good steward of my time? Do I trust enough to give of my time, talent, and treasure?”

One of the roadblocks to cultivating generosity is fear. Fear of not having enough, fear of what you may have to give up, fear of overextending yourself. This is true not only when it comes to financial generosity, but also in giving of our time.

“What we are seeing, not just in my experience and my pastor friends but outside of the Church and in the world, there is such a shortage of volunteers,” said Fr. D’Amico. “Too many people are just not stepping up today to run things and to run programs. There is a lot of fear, and it is that fear that holds us back from that next step.”

“Fear of taking the plunge, that it’s going to exhaust my resources, it’s going to exhaust my time, it’s going to exhaust my energy. But when God gives you something that is good and right and holy and you do it trustingly, humbly, God blesses that and makes great things happen.”

Sharing from his own experience, Fr. D’Amico encouraged listeners to let go of fear, saying that trusting in the Lord has opened him up to the Lord’s blessings. He said, “I know that God always blesses the cheerful, humble, trusting giver. So for that one who was thinking about that extra purchase or a gift to charity, in giving it to God’s purposes God will bless that. And I say that because it is my story. Anytime I decided to make that gift, that extra donation, that extra something … God has always blessed it 100-fold.”

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Stephanie Foley serves as a Digital Media Producer at Relevant Radio®. She is a graduate of Franciscan University of Steubenville, where she studied journalism, and she has worked in Catholic radio for 12 years. Stephanie is a wife, a mother of three boys, and in her free time she enjoys reading, running, and really good coffee. You can find more of Stephanie’s writing at and on the free Relevant Radio mobile app.