Scrupulosity – The Inner life – Novemer 14, 2024

Father Scott Bailey joins Patrick to discuss Scrupulosity

  • (2:43) what is scrupulosity?
  • What are signs that we might be scrupulous?
  • (7:26) how can someone who struggles with confession find peace in the sacrament?
  • (13:26) Ella – I’m convinced my young daughter has a major issue with scrupulosity.  She keeps asking to go to confession.  She keeps saying she has to go again.  She thinks everything is a mortal sin.
  • Michael – I have a friend who suffers from it. He’s working at dealing with it. I’m an addict in a 12 step program. I see a lot of similarities between scrupulosity and addition. AS one who suffers, if they’d use the 12 steps, it would be a plus.

(21:16) Break 1

  • Iris – I had something bad happen to me when I was young, and didn’t tell anyone.  I fear the woman who called about her daughter earlier is dealing with the same thing.
  • (24:46) Rae – If someone has been away from the church, made a confession, and then thought of something later, and was troubled by that, even though the priest said you were forgiven, should I be worried about that and take it to confession.
  • How does Pride play into scrupulosity?
  • Sarah – suffered from it in the past.  He identified that I was dealing with it. My penance was to sit in front of the manger and contemplates God’s love and mercy.
  • (33:29) Mary – I struggle with repeating (starting a prayer) and don’t think it’s good enough and then start over. It makes it difficult to get through and finish because I’m constantly starting over.

(38:26) Break 2

  • (39:27) Latasha – I struggle with repeating (starting a prayer) and don’t think it’s good enough and then start over. It makes it difficult to get through and finish because I’m constantly starting over.
  • Who are some good saints about scrupulosity.

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Patrick Conley was born, raised, and baptized in Wisconsin in a Protestant tradition. After meeting his wife, Kendra, through an Evangelical ministry at the University of Minnesota, they entered the Catholic Church in 2010. They listened to Relevant Radio, specifically The Inner Life, while preparing to enter the Church. Conley now holds a degree in theology from Oxford University and has served the Church in both academic theology and grassroots pastoral ministry. Conley teaches religion classes in a Catholic elementary school, serves as his parish Director of Religious Education, and is in formation for the permanent diaconate. He also hosts Practicing Catholic on Relevant Radio, exclusive to the Minneapolis area’s airwaves, and is a traveling presenter for the Catherine of Siena Institute apostolate. He lives in rural Wisconsin with his wife and their bulldogs, Georgie and Bingley.