What Role Does Suffering Play in Our Lives? (Trending with Timmerie)

This episode hits deep. Like, “maybe grab a cup of tea and your favorite blanket” kind of deep. ☕ Timmerie takes us into the heart of what it means to suffer as a Christian, and not just to survive it… but to be transformed by it.

She opens with that jaw-dropping list of sufferings from St. Paul in 2 Corinthians: lashes, beatings, shipwrecks, dangers everywhere, and that daily anxiety for the Church. (Paul, seriously… how did you even function?) Timmerie doesn’t just read it as ancient hardship. She asks:

“What do we do with our suffering?”

Because let’s be honest: it’s everywhere… grief, mental health struggles, betrayal, infertility, loneliness, physical illness, vocational confusion…We all carry something.


🔥 Here’s the heart of it: 📿Suffering is not pointless. It’s a pathway.

Drawing from Pope St. John Paul II’s encyclical Salvifici Doloris, Timmerie explains that suffering is uniquely human. It reveals the depth of the person and becomes the place where we’re called to go beyond ourselves and meet God.

JPII says suffering is where transcendence happens… where we don’t just endure life, but open ourselves to a deeper, more mysterious union with Christ.


You still have a choice.

Timmerie lays out some real talk:

-We can run from suffering.

-We can become bitter and play the victim.

-Or we can walk with Christ through it and be transformed.

She reminds us of something we kind of know but often ignore:

🙏 “You can suffer without Christ and just survive… or you can suffer with Christ and be transformed.”


✝️ Venerable Fulton Sheen’s half-crucified souls

This one’s heavy, but it’s beautiful. Sheen once said we live in a world full of half-crucified souls. People start the journey, carry the cross partway, but bail out before the end.

Some:

-Stop at the foot of the hill 🏔️

-Tear themselves off the cross before it’s raised

-Or abandon the crucifixion moments before it’s done

But real Christians?

“They persevere until the end. Like Christ, they stay until it is finished.”                                                                                                                                                                                                                 

That’s the invitation here… not just to be tough or stoic, but to stay on the cross with Jesus, and let His suffering make sense of ours.


💭 Final Reflection:

It’s a call to radical hope. Because our suffering isn’t just something to “get through.” It’s where God meets us. If we let Him, He can raise us into something new.


If you’re suffering (and let’s be real, we all are in some way), this episode is your reminder that:

-You’re not alone 🧎‍♂️

-You’re not weak 😌

-Your suffering isn’t wasted when united to Christ’s 💜

So, the next time life feels too much:


Stay on the cross.

Not because pain is good… but because resurrection is coming. 🌅

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Jake Moore serves as a Digital Audio Content Producer for Relevant Radio®. He is a graduate of Franciscan University of Steubenville, and is passionate about classic movies, Christian music, young adult ministry, and leading this generation to Christ through compelling media. You can listen to more of his podcasts at relevantradio.com and on the Relevant Radio® app.