When Omar from Hollister, California, called The Patrick Madrid Show, he had a concern familiar to many Catholic parents. He and his wife are raising two young children, hoping for more, and trying to put the Faith first, but few members of their extended family still practice.
Sometimes, Omar admitted, it gets lonely.
Patrick encouraged him to see his family as a light in the darkness. Even a single candle can illuminate a pitch-black room. In the same way, a Catholic family faithfully living its beliefs can become a quiet witness to relatives who have drifted away.
That witness begins at home.
Patrick recommended prominently displaying a crucifix and images of the Sacred Heart and Immaculate Heart, praying the Rosary as a family, attending Mass, receiving the sacraments, and letting children see that Catholicism shapes everyday life.
“It’s the meat and potatoes,” Patrick explained. Faith is formed through the basic things done faithfully again and again.
For Omar, that also means remembering his responsibility as a father. “God is first,” Patrick told him, followed by his wife and children. Rather than worrying that he is thinking too much about raising them well, Patrick encouraged him to keep seeking God’s guidance.
That responsibility also includes protecting their innocence. When relatives or situations could expose young children to scandal or subjects they are not ready to understand, parents can prudently establish boundaries while continuing to love their family.
“You’re a young patriarch,” Patrick told Omar. “You’re at the beginning of this lifelong adventure.”
The years with young children will pass quickly. Patrick’s encouragement was simple: fill those years with prayer, the sacraments, Catholic life, and a visible love for Jesus.
“Grab it and don’t let go of it.”
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