Priesthood brings the privilege of entering people’s lives at their most important moments. But moving from someone’s deepest grief to another’s greatest joy can also take a toll.
Speaking with Tim Glemkowski, Fr. Alex McCullough reflected on the cumulative weight of years in parish ministry. He has celebrated more than 100 weddings and 300 baptisms, while also accompanying families through funerals and profound suffering.
Sometimes those moments come almost back-to-back. A priest may walk with a grieving family and, shortly afterward, celebrate a joyful wedding or offer Mass.
Over time, he explained, there may not always be enough opportunity to process those experiences with the Lord. His hope for a sabbatical is to learn “how to have a more manageable life that does allow me to process these things with the Lord rather than just carry them with me all the time.”
He also shared advice from a fellow priest after one particularly brutal pastoral experience. The answer was simple: “There’s nothing to do in that situation but give it to Jesus.”
That can mean returning to the Lord at the end of a long day and placing what happened before Him: “Lord, I have no idea what to do with this.”
It’s a powerful glimpse into the hidden sacrifices priests make while serving God’s people. Their vocation cannot be carried by human strength alone. As this priest put it, there is no way to live it without “complete and total trust and reliance on powers that are well beyond anything you could ever muster yourself.”
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