Author: Thomas Engesser

Ways to reconnect with your spouse (Part 2)

Marriage Unhindered, Podcasts
Doug continues to unpack ways to reconnect with your spouse. He shares the importance of gratitude and making a daily effort to let your spouse know how important they are in your life. Listener questions and comments: Martha – I’ve been to counseling with my husband. Everything Doug says, I do, and my husband says […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Ways to reconnect with your spouse

Marriage Unhindered, Podcasts
Feeling disconnected from your spouse is a common problem many experience after years of marriage. Today, Doug unpacks ways to reconnect with your spouse. Doug shares the importance of investing one percent of the day with your spouse and taking the time to actively listen to your spouse. PLUS: The Friday Rant. Listener questions and […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Criticism and people pleasing

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Monica Hinderer joins Doug to continue their discussion on being raised in a highly critical home. In this episode, they unpack how overly critical parents can lead children to become people pleasers. They share how people pleasers tend to suppress their own emotions and have lower self-esteem and offer solutions to help those who struggle […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Helping children with anxiety and OCD

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Dr. Johann D’Souza joins Doug discussing how to parent an anxious child. He includes common differences between mom’s approach, dad’s approach and why they are both wrong. Dr. D’Souza shares resources to help parents with children struggling with anxiety and speaks to the importance of avoiding parental accommodations, showing empathy, and restoring confidence. Listener questions […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Reasons couples fall out of love (Part 2)

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Doug continues his discussion on reasons why couples fall out of love. He shares the importance of putting God first, then your spouse, then your children. Doug speaks to the value of rekindling the love of friendship with your spouse, reconnecting on shared hobbies, and keeping the commitment of time with your spouse by planning […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Reasons why couples fall out of love

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Doug shares reasons why people fall out of love. He stresses the importance of staying connected through regular prayer, date nights and communicating about your hopes and dreams. Listener Questions and comments: Maria – I have been married about 40 years and have had a good friend for 15 years. I sacrificed my friendship for […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Hyper Defensive Children

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Monica Hinderer joins Doug for part 6 of their series on the negative effects of excessive criticism on children. They discuss hyper defensiveness when a child always feels like they are always under the microscope and share key insights into how you can criticize the behavior and not the child. Listener questions and comments: David […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

The gift of marriage

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Dr. Mario Sacasa joins Doug to discuss the gift of marriage. They unpack the sacramental nature of marriage and the importance of emotional intimacy in marriage. Doug and Dr. Sacasa give advice to callers. Patty – I need advice for my marriage. How can I be more emotionally intimate with my husband of 31 years? […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Working together for a great marriage

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Doug answers listener emails and calls, giving advice on a variety of topics ranging from divorce and defects in marriage to working on having an overall stronger marriage. Doug encourages those in troubled marriages to focus on the positive aspects of their marriage and to use therapy to help fix what they cannot fix on […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

The dangers of porn

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What are the dangers of porn and how does it destroy marriages? Doug discusses how to help someone with a porn addiction and how to love them through it. Plus: the Friday rave. Pornography Resources Catholic Resources Websites: Roadtopurity.com IntegrityRestored.com MattFradd.com Catholic.com – Overcoming Porn Addition Covenanteyes.com Instituteformaritalhealing.com Reclaimsexualhealth.com Purityispossible.com Strive21.com United States Conference of […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more

Hyper critical children

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Monica Hinderer joins Doug to discuss how growing up in a highly critical home can produce hyper critical children. They share the importance of teaching empathy in daily family life and understanding one another’s emotions. Doug and Monica also tackle listener emails and give advice on topics ranging from gender dysphoria to age gaps in […]Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: ... Read more